About Me

About Sherly Raymond, LMFT

Perimenopause & Menopause Coaching for Women 35+

Hi, I’m Sherly, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and founder of Growing Stages Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC, based in New York, NY.

I specialize in helping women 35+ navigate the emotional and relational shifts of perimenopause and menopause.

Because here’s the truth: midlife can hit hard. One minute, you feel grounded. Next, you’re overwhelmed, irritated, anxious, or questioning everything. Your patience is thinner. Your relationships feel strained. You may not even recognize yourself.

You’re not broken. You’re in transition. And this season deserves real support.

Why I Focus on Midlife Women

With over a decade of clinical experience working with women and couples in New York, NY, and virtually nationwide, I saw the same pattern again and again:

Capable, high-functioning women in their late 30s, 40s, and early 50s are struggling with mood swings, anxiety, anger, and identity shifts, often without anyone connecting it to perimenopause. So I chose to specialize in it. Today, I blend evidence-based therapy with practical coaching strategies to help women understand what’s happening hormonally and emotionally, and regain stability and clarity.

What I Help With

I support women experiencing:

  • Mood swings and irritability

  • Anxiety and emotional overwhelm

  • Midlife identity shifts

  • Relationship tension

  • Burnout and self-doubt

I also work with couples navigating the strain perimenopause can place on communication and connection.

If you’ve read my article on mood swings during perimenopause, you already know,  this isn’t “just stress.” It’s a real transition that deserves informed support. You can also explore:

How I Work

At Growing Stages, I offer:

1:1 Online Coaching for Women 35+
Support for perimenopause and menopause emotional regulation, confidence rebuilding, and communication tools.

Couples Coaching
Helping partners understand what’s happening and improve empathy and connection.

Therapy for Midlife Issues
Clinical support for anxiety, emotional regulation, and relationship stress.

All sessions are offered virtually nationwide.
In-person services are available for clients located in New York, NY, depending on availability.

My Approach

You won’t get generic advice.

You’ll get:

  • Clear tools

  • Direct conversations

  • Evidence-informed strategies

  • A space where your experience isn’t minimized

We can talk about brain fog.
We can talk about snapping at your partner.
We can talk about the identity shift no one warned you about.

No judgment. Just clarity and growth.

Ready to Feel Steady Again?

If you’re tired of wondering what’s wrong and ready to understand what’s happening, let’s talk.

Schedule a consultation and take the first step toward feeling like yourself again.

Where We Serve

Address

Online,
New York, NY 10461

Phone

929-581-3700

Office Hours

Mon  

11:00 am - 7:00 pm

Tuesday  

11:00 am - 7:00 pm

Wednesday  

11:00 am - 7:00 pm

Thursday  

11:00 am - 7:00 pm

Friday  

11:00 am - 7:00 pm

Saturday  

Closed

Sunday  

Closed